Over the years, a question regarding a loved one will pop up once in a while
And there are actually 2 paths to this question
One is regarding a deceased loved one, and the other is after a break up or a divorce
Of course, one can understand the heartache and pain that comes from a loss whether it is a family member who has passed away, or the separation from a lover
So we can also understand this question
Let’s go through both ways and I will share what I can for now
Can hypnosis bring my deceased loved one back?
Naturally, the short answer is no, I can’t bring back a deceased loved one
However, hypnosis can allow you to meet your deceased loved one and have some form of closure so you can move on
A follow up question might be whether it is really the spirit of your loved one, or is it just a figment of one’s imagination
Honestly, it could be either or
From the scientific point of view, it cannot be the actual spirit returning and chatting with you and thus it is just a figment of your imagination
Yet from the metaphysical or spiritual point of view, it could be the spirit coming back too
From my point of view, it doesn’t matter so much which is it
That is because the main purpose is for you to have closure
Whether it is a spirit or your imagination, you will have that closure (unless you don’t want to let go and move on to begin with)
This is because even if it is just your imagination, your unconscious mind cannot differentiate what is real and what is imagined
Thus it will take it as if it is real
And of course, if it is really the spirit of your deceased loved one, then you can also have the closure you deserve
Relieving you of grief, hurt, pain, sadness, anger, etc
Here’s a case study where a client met with her deceased loved ones in order to let go, move on, and heal
Can you make my loved one come back to me?
This one is a bit tricky and most of the time the answer is no
And that also means there is a small possibility for a yes
But before you get your hopes up, let me explain
“No” is easier to explain
You must understand that for a relationship to occur, both parties are willing to establish and start a relationship (generally speaking)
Of course, there might be some rare case where one is willing and the other isn’t willing but agree due to various reasons of coercion
So if most relationships have two willing parties, then naturally, when they break up it is of their own choice for one or the other as well
And that also means that coming back together will require both parties to be making that choice
That means to say, if you want your ex to come back to you, you want the relationship to start again while your ex doesn’t for whatever reason
Unless it is your ex that came to see me to resolve whatever conflict that cause the break up so that he/she is able to return to you, then yes it might be possible
Naturally, if it was the rare case of a relationship where one wasn’t willing to begin with, it generally increases the chances for cheating, running away, breaking up, and thus, harder to get back together as well
Free will is an important factor in this
At the very least, you doing therapy regarding your negative relationship patterns might allow you to find a better wholesome relationship
Of course, that means being willing to move on from your ex too
What about the small “yes” possibility?
This is possible if the issue lies with you that cause your ex to leave and don’t want to come back
If so, then the hypnosis can help you to release and resolve this issue and perhaps, maybe, by some small possibility, when you reach out to your ex, the change is enough to allow him/her to give you a second chance
Even rarer will be that your ex automatically reach out to you with a change of heart
While this might sound like magic, it isn’t
It is possible
Although to be fair, I don’t have this specific case due to having such few requests of this nature
However, I did have a case where a woman was thinking to divorce her husband due to his verbal abuse
She was also having depression at that time and she came to me to heal her depression and find the strength to divorce
Fast forward, to her surprise, after the hypnosis, her husband started to change himself too and stopped abusing her
Their love rekindled and they are still in a marriage
For this case, it was because the hypnosis also resolve the negative relationship pattern in her unconscious mind – that a relationship is verbally abusive
Previously this pattern will cause her physical reality to have a boyfriend and later on, a husband who is verbally abusive
Thus this change will mean that her husband will not enact that pattern anymore
Yea I know right?
Like magic!
That’s how weird the unconscious mind can be
Our unconscious relationship patterns tend to be learnt through our childhood, by observing our parents’ relationship patterns
And of course, how hypnosis works is because our unconscious mind cannot differentiate what is real and what is imagined
I cannot stress that enough
So if you imagine something to be really fearful and frightening, you will experience fear, panic, anxiety etc
But if you imagine something wonderful, healing, in abundance, you will get that too
So even though you might think the logical answer is “no” to the above question, there may be some elements where “yes” is possible
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