Ok it is a bit early for World Mental Health Day but it sort of syncs with my birthday~
World Mental Health Day is a day to raise public awareness about issues surrounding mental health as well as to promote mental health care
In particular, World Mental Health Day 2024 is about promoting mental health awareness and care in the work place environment
Which naturally generates stress as bosses might tend to focus on results and sales
Now of course, you might be thinking, how does this link with my birthday?
First of all, when I was a kid, my dad linked my birthday to the idea of other people being happy
Like, instead of me, myself and I, which is how a normal child might be on their birthday
My mind was tweaked to see the happiness of others on my birthday
Which is rather interesting isn’t it?
For a child to have such an idea
So I personally don’t celebrate my birthday
On top of that, I nearly died in my sleep at the age of 20 when my lung burst without any warning
Yes, doctors could not diagnose what happened either, and you can read the full story here
And I suffered from various mental health issues such as PTSD, depression, anxiety, mental breakdowns etc
My life only turned around when I realized how mental health and physical health are linked and far more important than just career achievements or results
In case you are wondering, yes, I learnt NLP and hypnosis to fix my own mental health issues, and that’s why I am doing what I am doing to help people who are silently suffering from mental health issues today
Which is why even if my birthday is round the corner, I will rather remind people with this message that their mental health is important enough for them to stop and think carefully
So yea, how can the work place environment shift towards mental health care?
It ain’t easy unless the bosses make a shift in their own understandings, and implement a change within the company
Sure, the individual people working in the company can focus on their own mental health care too but let’s be honest
How many will really focus on their mental health?
You know, some years ago I had the opportunity to meet such a boss
The boss and lady boss truly cared for their staff
Now to be fair, they probably realized that the mental health of their staff might link to their work performance, which is fairly true
One of their sales staff had an issue with speaking up and interacting with the customers, and thus, sales were on the lower end
What did the boss and lady boss do?
Well, they engaged me to come into the company
They bought 1 session of hypnosis per staff for all their staff
Now they encouraged their staff to make use of it (since they already paid right)
But at the same time, they know they cannot force their staff to see me if they don’t want to
Here’s the amazing thing!
That sales girl who had an issue with speaking up and interacting?
She was one of the first to see me because she wanted to resolve her fears and lack of confidence
And the change was astounding!
After the hypnosis, she became confident, and was able to close sales easily!!
The lady boss was shocked and contacted me
She wanted to get another round of sessions for the staff because the results proved itself
Although yea, I did caution her about it cause the other staff haven’t done their hypnosis yet (only that sales girl came after all) and honestly, some people might just need 1 session
So we can stick to the original
And this is an example of how the bosses understanding of how mental health shapes a person, might trickle down to the staff, and cause a great positive change
What can you do for World Mental Health Day?
If you can, share this message with your managers, supervisors and bosses
Let them know that they need to be aware of how mental health is ever crucial
That the overall work performance is linked to the mental health of the staff
Many research articles have already found links that positive mental health lead to positive or higher work performance
Now of course they don’t need to be like the above boss who bought hypnosis sessions for the entire company
Even having a workshop or two to share about stress relief tips, or ways to reduce anxiety in the work place environment can help
And perhaps they might want to brainstorm their own ideas how to boost mental health and productivity for the company at the same time
But it doesn’t have to stop there
You can do your own part too!
And it can be as simple as treating people kinder in the work place
Everyone has some issues in the background, be it personal, relationship, family etc
And all these can stack on their mental health too
Being kinder to the people around us might not “cure” them
But it gives them an easier day
Being kinder to them also means, that even if they treat you badly, you still treat them with kindness
Have the understanding that perhaps, that day hasn’t been good to them, and they cannot control their own state and emotions
And unfortunately, they are just leaking that negative emotion to people around them, which includes you
Of course, being kind to yourself is probably the most important
If you notice there is workplace bullying, or even abuse onto you!
Then consider it necessary to even leave the company and look for another job
After you make a report to the HR of course
Happy World Mental Health Day 2024!
We can control our own reactions the best
In the event you find yourself perhaps needing some extra advice or help, feel free to PM me either in the purple chat button or on my Facebook here
You can also check out the World Mental Health Day Official website for more information
Til then I wish you to have peace and kindness in your life 🙂